I’ve officially entered the second trimester of this project to birth an adult woman. In 26 weeks, I will turn 40 and I intend to do it feeling absolutely fantastic about where I’ve come from, where I’m at at, and where I’m going. If you have a “normal” pregnancy, the second trimester is supposed to be the best. You’re not nauseous anymore, you have more energy, and you have that pregnancy glow. Whatever the hell that means. I don’t know what a normal pregnancy feels like because mine sucked big time, but I think I’m having better luck with my fake pregnancy.
I feel really good about this project. I can see where some of the small changes I’ve made have translated into better habits and more intentional behavior. I’ve found myself putting into practice some of the items on my list without even having to devote an entire week to them. I think the simple act of writing them down has made them stick in the front of my mind. I’ve also learned A LOT about goal setting and how much these little, tiny changes impact the big picture goal. When I first made this list, I considered what made sense for my life as it existed in that moment. I thought about what was realistic to accomplish with my schedule and my obligations, which is, I think, a very practical approach to fulfilling a goal. In the last 13 weeks though, I’m seeing things that I didn’t see before. What once looked like limitations or obstacles now look like a minor problem to be solved, a challenge to be completed.
My list is evolving and my dreams are getting bigger. I’ve had some things tucked away in my heart that I wanted so much, but they seemed too big and too scary to go after. But this is the second trimester and I’m not nauseous anymore and I have way more energy to do this thing. I’ve outlined my list below for the next 13 weeks. Don’t be fooled by some of the ordinary titles, there are some sleepers and some plot-twists lurking within. I can’t wait to share them with you over the coming months. I’ve also edited some of my existing items to fit better with current goals. And what I’d really, really like to know, is what goals you guys have that you’re going to knock out this year. Share them with me!
The Second Trimester List
Week 14 – January 10 – 16 – Do something I’ve been dreading.
Week 15 – January 17 – 23 –
Try Zumba. I’m not coordinated. This should be interesting. Try Orangetheory Fitness.
Week 16 – January 24 – 30 – Do something that makes my eyes roll. Sometimes being judge-y keeps me from doing awesome things.
Week 17 – January 31 – February 6 –
Don’t spend any money on non-essentials for an entire month. Stick to my budget.
Week 18 – February 7 – 13 – Date my husband.
Week 19 – February 14 – 20 – Be present and engaged with Little C. I’m going to need some rules for this one. Plus take Little C to the snow.
Week 20 – February 21 – 27 – Cook more from my vast collection of cookbooks.
Week 21 – February 28 – March 6 –
Make plans more often with my girlfriends. Find a mentor.
Week 22 – March 7 – 13 – Go TV & non-essential phone use free for 1 week.
Week 23 – March 14 – 20 – Try meditation. At least once a day for a week. See what happens.
Week 24 – March 21 – 27 – FREEBIE
Week 25 – March 28 – April 3 – Visit a national park I haven’t been to before.
Week 26 – April 4 – 10 – Update my wardrobe with a few quality pieces instead of throwing clearance items in my cart while on a Target run.